How can you tell difference between dreaming and pretending? I dream of a better world where people respect each other and nature and don’t let greed get in the way of humanity. I dream of food systems that do not destroy our planet and the people who live on it.
This dream slips into pretending when I tell myself and others that this “dream” is coming true faster than it is. I say things that sound good, but are not 100% true in order to shape others’ opinions and make myself feel better. This is a form of manipulating myself and the opinions of others.
So, if pretending is a form of manipulating, dreaming is a form of envisioning. Dreaming is seeing that is possible, and inspiring change though small acts that add up. A few times when my dreams were dashed, I slipped into pretending becasue I wasn’t ready to let that dream go.
I wonder how long I have been pretending that “systems change” starts from a small place out, is panful and takes many sacrifices, and often takes decades and centuries? When will I admit to myself that big, seismic change is shaped by massive geopolitical events like world wars and not idealistic performative individuals. I was on Nestle’s website yesterday reading all about regenerative farming and how they are changing the world and “empowering” women and small holder farmers through education programs and blah blah….. –and as I am reading, I am seeing, in giant corporate lingo, the very words I was using as a broke urban farmer in 2011 that corporations would vomit on.
In Nestle’s marketing copy are the phrases activists were using un underground agric circles in 2012 and before that: “systems change”, “Just food systems”, “regenerative agriculture”. How long does it take a dream to trickle into plastic corporate lingo? Or is this is a sign of progress that I am being bitter about –shouldn’t i be glad corporations are taking up the mantle of foos justice? Well, let’s look at the facts: has anything fundamentally changed about how food is not only grown, but harvested and distributed in the past 10 years? Are farmers and farm laborers getting paid more, adjusted for inflation? Is Nestle taking financial hits in the name of farmer well being? Or are corporations being forced to re-frame and re-brand in the face of a shifting target market demographic that is concerned about a dying planet?
I can’t shake this haunting attitude of pretending: “We may all slowly perish in the storms of climate change, but hey, we sure looked good doing it.” “We don’t REALLY have to fix the climate crisis. Tech will figure it out” — “We can offset all our regular operations’ carbon footprint with drawdown schemes that involve a forest on another continent –it won’t involve cutting our own fossil fuels that much. It’s the same diet pill mentality “I can eat processed foods and live a sedentary lifestyle and still have cut abs and be super healthy if I just take turmeric pills every night.”
When the dream dies, we can pretend ’til the end!